porn
The first thing I'll say and it will probably shock you as much as it did me, but women can be porn addicts too. The rabbit hole goes deep let me tell you. The amount of women that have came forward to me and talked about their problems have been staggering, and yet I suspect it's only because I'm...
do people reflect
It seems the popular thing to do these days it to jump on a blog and bash men. Toxic Masculinity is the term I've heard thrown about the walls of popular blogs and social media. Personally, I always thought toxic masculinity was something that had befallen my father. A combination of absent parenting and little childhood boundaries led him...
Boy and dad
As you've probably guessed by now I lucked out on the healthy advice and guidance by men in general when I was younger. The closest to any fatherly advice I received was from some old pervert that was trying to get into my mum's knickers. I've never spoken about this but my mum had a lot of clingers; men...
being a dad
In a good way. I always imagined that being a dad for the first time I would be sitting at a table with my friends smoking a fat cigar whilst the wife was back at home telling all of her friends. It was a very 60's version of coming into rights but that was what I had experienced before. I...
respect
We've moved far in the last twenty years. I can remember a time when I had just been out of psychiatric hospital for about a week and I had some old man preaching to me about how "I should have a fuckin' job." I'll also never forget the time when a taxi driver that was giving me a lift...
Raymond is a thirty something young man with lots of experience in the Mental Health sector. He is challenging current popular views on Mental Health, Parenting, Childhood, and Men.

Don't miss